One of my favorite things about health and fitness is that it’s so much more than physical.  Through resistance training and proper nutrition, you’re able to fine-tune your body how you want physically, but the mental, emotional, and sometimes spiritual areas of your life often get elevated at the same time.  You’re physically pushing yourself, which makes you mentally stronger and seek out ways to continue improving in other areas of your life.  Understanding that getting better in one area affects many others is a trickle effect that has me obsessed.  Obsessed with pushing myself in the gym and out, and it’s what led me to my most recent challenge/obse

ssion – Breath Retention Exercise.

If you follow along, you may have seen me post random screenshots of numbers/bar graphs illustrating random times between 1:35-3:00.  These are the durations of each round of breath retention exercise I have been doing.  Several people I follow on Twitter had been boasting about the benefits of this practice and enough was finally enough.  Entering June, I decided to take on the challenge to perform 5 rounds of breath retention every day and I must say, not only has it been one of the best challenges I’ve taken on, but it has also been one of the toughest to tackle!

Following the practices of the Ice Man – Wim Hof – I decided to challenge my body and my mind to see what all the fuss was about with this whole “breath retention” practice.

For those unfamiliar, Breath Retention is the practice of performing a number of continuous deep breaths in/out without break, with the last exhale leading into a timed session of retention without air in

 your body for as long as you can hold.  Once you reach your max and must breath again, you stop the timer and take a large inhale and hold for 15 seconds before releasing and beginning the next round again.  This continues for however many rounds you want and the initial deep breathing can be anywhere between 5-60 breaths.

I had heard about a few benefits of this practice including:

-Stress relief

-Increased alertness

-Better circulation

-Becoming more relaxed

-etc

So I was excited to see if this really was the bees knees or just another fad in the long list and spoiler, it was great!

In doing a little research, I learned that the best way to approach this was to set time aside preferably in the mornings, on an empty stomach.  This allowed the breathing and retention to help wake up your body and vascular system to its fullest potential before being introduced to the energy of the day.  On days when I could not get to it in the morning, there was a significant difference in my ability to hold in retention.  In the evenings, my mind was quicker to wander; I was less focused on the here and now; and just overall felt less mentally strong in the moment so I tried to stick with mornings as much as possible.

After some trial and error, I found that 25 breaths was the sweet spot for me and led to increased retention each day of practice with some interesting physical side effects.

Most days when I would practice, if I was able to cross the 2-2.5 minute threshold, I began to feel tingling sensations throughout my body and even began to experience what I would call, minor tinnitus (ringing in the ear).  I never passed out, but a few small muscle spasms of the diaphragm on longer held rounds were not uncommon as I tried mentally to overpower my physical request to inhale.

Aside from these in-the-moment effects, I must say I was pleasantly surprised that the other benefits of the practice as mentioned before were also experienced.

The practice itself through the three phases (deep breaths, retention, recovery hold) increased the flow of the vascular system and the bodies’ ability to transport oxygen through the body while flushing out toxins that may have been held up in various areas.  Most notable effects were mental.

The increased flow of blood and oxygen to the head allowed for mental fogs to clear and help me wake up, feeling more alert.  A couple of times I had begun my session with a slight headache and found that by the end, the ache was gone.  Not only that, but the retention tested me mentally to truly feel my body.  Focus on relaxing new areas of the body that I hadn’t paid much attention to.  Focus on controlling my heartbeat and keeping my mind on the present moment rather than flittering around on to other things.

Being candid, the increased blood flow and cleansed vascular system has also seen a rise not only in my physical prowess in the gym but has also helped, in conjunction with heavy weight training, facilitate a higher sex drive and stronger and more frequent erections in the bedroom.  Something I can’t imagine anyone would complain about. 

The vascular systems health and ability to funnel oxygen and blood around the body where it needs to be under any stressor is a fascinating thing and having only scraped the surface of this training, I must say that I am very happy with the results mentally, physically, emotionally, and even spiritually as I’ve tapped into a part of myself I didn’t give much thought to.

If you’ve ever heard or thought about experimenting or trying this, I would highly recommend and would be happy to answer any questions about it that you might have.

As I mentioned, I believe a lot of the benefits I felt with this breath retention were also in alignment with my weight training program which is focused on building maximum strength.  Strength training has it’s own benefits for clearing the mind, making the body better, funneling oxygen and blood through the vascular system, balancing and boosting hormones and in combination with breath retention, is helping me reach a new level internally and externally.

I don’t want to work out today.

I don’t want to eat that grilled chicken wrap and spinach today.

I don’t want to meditate today.

I don’t want to read that book today.

I don’t want to go for a walk today.

I don’t want to study today.

I don’t want.

I don’t want.

I don’t want.

These are the things we say to ourselves when we feel overwhelmed, tired, stressed, frustrated, angry, etc. and follow it up with things like, “is it even worth it?”

We live in a day and age which has taught us that the best rewards are those that we receive instantaneously and that being patient for the long-term is not necessarily bad, but unbearable to do!  So we get to a point where motivation wanes and think any of the thoughts above followed by the question – “is it even worth it?”

Unquestionably the answer should be a resounding, “ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY!”

The best results come in the long term.

Putting on muscle takes time; following a program that’s designed to increase in progress meticulously and marginally over months, even years!

Losing weight (correctly) takes time; following a nutrition plan that changes not only how much you eat, but how you eat and the habits surrounding over months, even years!

Earning money takes time; savings and investing through the lows and highs over months, even (most likely) years!

You get the point.  It takes time; patience; work; and keeping your eye on the end goal to reach the heights you are trying to climb.

Like everyone else, I have the days when I wake up and think, “Ugh, I do NOT want to work out/eat healthy/move at all today.” But these are also the days where showing up is most critical.  It’s not a matter of beating out anyone else who would give in and stay home but beating that version of myself who wants to skip today because I take my mind from tomorrow.  Take the action and do the damn thing now so that tomorrow you’ll thank yourself.

“But Eric, what if I just DO NOT WANT to do it anymore and my dumb brain wins out!?”

Good question, friend.

We’re not perfect and there may be times where that happens.  Sometimes we HAVE to take that day off, and that’s okay.  But from there 2 things can/need to happen.

  1. Do not skip a second time.

Skipping once is fine – maybe your body is telling you it NEEDS the rest/break.  Maybe life DID just get too busy and too in the way.  That’s fine, it happens.  What cannot happen, is missing twice.  When you miss twice, you have now started a new negative habit.  One where you are more open to taking your foot off the gas.  One where “stop and smell the roses” is something you’re okay with.  Next thing you know it’s been days, weeks, months later and you’re still in the same place or worse instead of continuing forward.

 

Take the mental health days when needed and get the rest you need, but do not let it bleed into multiple times.  Get back on the horse and keep going.

 

  1. Re-evaluate your goals.

‘Ope, you skipped again and again and again and now you’re back to where you started and staring down barrel of needing to get back to it.  If this is you, then I caution you to not throw yourself back into the same goals and routine you were in before.  If you’ve taken time off and now getting back into it, you need to take time and re-evaluate the goal and your approach.

 

Clearly something didn’t click the last time through and taking the time to figure out what went right, wrong, and how it will be different this time, can help you dial it in to be successful this time around.

Maybe life got crazy.

Maybe what you were doing wasn’t exciting.

Maybe it wasn’t getting the results you needed.

Maybe it didn’t fit your schedule.

Maybe you didn’t have the right mindset.

 

Addressing what DIDN’T go well, and taking stock of what DID go well, can then help you create the plan to be successful this time.  This also helps you make sure that your goals line up with your values which is a big motivator to help you keep the eye on the long term.

 

Life is crazy.

Bettering yourself is hard.

Throwing in the towel feels like a super easy solution.

But the second you ask yourself, “is it worth it?” and you can answer, “FUCK YES!” is the moment you will level up and start truly becoming your best self.  But if you do decide to skip, make sure to not miss more than twice and skipping becomes a new habit, take the time to re-evaluate and address how you’ll change this time to make it successful.

The road is long and difficult to navigate, but when you reach your goals, the view is extraordinary!

What hard road are you walking?

If there was one wish I could have come true above all else, it would be for everyone to inherently believe to their very core that they are unstoppable.

The world will try to break you.

It will throw the shit at you time and time again.

It will do everything in its power to stop you.

But it can’t.

You are unstoppable.

As much as it sucks in the moment, and there may be many moments depending on a litany of external factors beyond what I can type here, there’s one thing to keep in mind.  You have survived 100% of your worst days – and that is something we can all smile about.

“But Eric, I have it WAAAAAY worse than you or anyone else does.”

That may be true, but I’m not here to argue levels of struggle.  Struggle is struggle and adversity is adversity as it pertains to you.  We are all in different circumstances but have the same strength to rise above the situation we’re in to become our best selves and live our best lives.

It’s easy to look around and see people that seem to have it all together and are on top of the world, but what’s great is that you can be that person too.  You ARE that person too!  The only difference between you and that person is that when faced with whatever challenge was standing in their way, that person stood up and found a way around it. 

They found light in the darkness.

They found a new way to deal with an old problem.

They found ways to prioritize their goals.

They. Did. Not. Quit.

Because they know they are unstoppable.

If you are struggling to stay the course or light your fire, grab some paper/a pencil and try a little exercise that has helped me time and time again over the course of my own challenges and adversity:

Start by thinking about and writing down what it is you want in this life– where you want to be; who you want to be; what you want in this life – with as much detail as possible.  The more detailed, the more real it will be in your mind.

Now, if you’re not there yet, break it down into what kind of person it takes to be to get there.  What kinds of things does that person do every day?  What kind of things does that person value in life? Who are they to themselves/ their families/ their community?

Next you’ll take stock of your current situation and note all the things currently standing in your way.  All the adversity keeping you from becoming that person.  This is where we get out ALL the negativity.  All the bad juju about our families, our jobs, our social circles, etc. and really get into all of the things that we think of as being out of our control.  All the things that happen in our day-to-day life that take us away from that “best self” image from earlier.  As hard as it can be, get ALL of it out.

This step may be best to do in a list form as it will lead into the next one…

Take a second here and let’s re-cap.  Go back to the start of the exercise and re-read through all the things you’ve written down.  Remind yourself of that future you; who that person is; and all the things standing in your way right now.

Once you’ve come back to the current spot, it’s time to take that list of all the adversity in your way and time to write out what you can do to control that environment or situation in a way that lines up with that person you want to become.  It doesn’t need to be super in-depth, but it needs to be real, obvious, simple to implement, and in line with you are and who you want to be.

Go over that list again.

Go over it a third time.

Forget triple checking – QUADRUPLE check it.

Now that you can see in front of you all the things you want to become; who that person is; and what you can control in a world trying to control you, it’s time to act.

Act on that final list.  Chip away one at a time at all the things standing in your way by implementing the ways you’ve come up with address it and watch your best self unfold before your eyes.  Spend 2-3 weeks at a time focusing on one task at a time and continue building layer upon layer until you reach your goals!

Re-visit this list as often as needed until it’s engrained in your brain, then revisit it again!  Keep it fresh, handy, and build on it as you go.  As you begin to become your best self, chances are that your values and vision may change as well when you start to dial in toward those goals.  Feel free to amend as you need, but the practice and steps remain the same.

By taking a look at all the things standing in our way (external and internal) that are keeping you from becoming who you’re supposed to be, only then can you start to address how to take control and lead life instead of letting life lead you. 

You are amazing.

You are full of abundance and wealth.

You are unstoppable!